"Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit; which is of great worth in God's sight."
As I prepare to leave this weekend for a Women of Faith conference I am excited to be fed on the word by the speakers and encouraged in worship by those leading but I'm also looking forward to spending quality time with quality women of faith. Being a woman means so much more than what so many today make of their feminity. Being a woman can be a wonderful adventure. We have the ability to bring new life into this world. We have the ability to love deeply, connect more intimately, and offer a side of Jesus that men may not understand.
When I was a young girl, this scripture found in 1 Peter was used to ensure that a woman "knew her place". According to many in the church I belonged to, women were second class to their spouses. They were to be silent and opinions not wanted nor valued. Instead of taking the true meaning of this scripture for what was being shared with the women of that time and all women to come, it was taken as a scripture of what the woman was not to do. I'm thankful that as a woman maturing not only in age but in faith that I can see more into this scripture.
My role as a woman, as a daughter, a friend, a sister, a wife, a mother are all uniquely designed for me and my journey. This scripture wasn't to tell me about what not to wear or how I was to look on the outside but it was to tell me that my value, my worth was inside me. The beauty found in me is my spirit, the very being of who I am resting in Christ. My clothing doesn't define me as a woman, my hair doesn't define me as a daughter, my jewlry doesn't define me as a friend. What defines me as a woman is my relationship and submission to my father, my heavenly father. I am who I am because of who HE is. I am a Princess, my father the King of Kings and Lord of Lords.
Once I realized for myself that the scripture called out to the very heart and nature of a woman, I realized how valued and loved a woman is for the qualities that she and she alone possess. God designed a man and a woman different for this world with purpose and plan behind those designs. Women have the gentle and quiet spirit of the living word dwelling in their hearts by natural gifting. Somewhere along the way, many have gotten away from that thinking that this is a man's world and to survive we must behave and think like men. We were purposed to be helpmates, to compliment our physically stronger counterparts and its more than ok to be a woman. Never confuse being gentle and quiet in spirit with weak and incapable. Learn to listen to God's leading, to listen to the Holy Spirit guiding and directing your spirit. It's a gift you've been given to be a woman...to be a life giver. Never use that power you've been given to take life away from another.
I thank you Lord today for being a woman of faith and for surrounding me with women of unfading beauty.
Blessings,
Heather
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Blessings, John 1:16
"From the fullness of his grace we have all received one blessing after another."
The past couple of weeks I've really had my ears "tuned up" from God. Have you ever had that happen? Those times when God tweaks your listening skills and asks you, my child do you not understand even now that in your faith comes great blessing and reward? I'm in that place it appears these days. Constant reminders of just how blessed I am even through the storms of life... I AM BLESSED.
I've been reminded by countless scriptures of how God favors his people through his grace and provisions. I'm also reminded contrary to some people's understanding (clearing my throat as I say this) that God does not show favortism. So although I am highly favored, I don't claim to be his favorite but loved greatly just the same.
This year hasn't been the best so far; several loved ones have gone home to be with the Lord. We've had a few health and financial scares but through it all God has remained faithful. Although my flesh wanted to grow weak and weary, my God reminded me that he has been with me from the time I was being woven together in my mother's womb. He knows the hairs on my head and my name is forever written on the palm of his hand. He reminds me just how many ways I am blessed and shown favor. It's really easy to get caught up in the pity parties of one and to focus on the negatives in our lives but it's through these trials that we become stronger and become lights to others who perhaps are not walking in a life of faith. How do we encouarge and help another through a situation if we have never experienced it ourselves? How do we reflect God's love and mercy if we've never seen the lack of love and mercy from this world?
Today I got to see the sunshine and spend time outdoors listening to the birds, seeing the clouds roll in and out of view, hear the wind whistling through the trees and smell the fresh air of life that is bursting forth in our trees and flowers. Today I got to see; there are many that didn't. Today I was able to ride my bike and strengthen my heart and body; there were many that will never experience that pleasure. Today I was able to hear the message given to my pastor from our heavenly father, there are many in this world that would give anything just to have five minutes to hear or read about his love and life eternal. Today I am blessed. Today I recognize that my blessings flow from one to another. Today I understand what it means to be blessed and to be a blessing.
How many blessings can you sit down and write out on a piece of paper that you receive daily? How many blessings can you think of in your mind that you simply take for granted? How many ways can you be a blessing to others so they can see the light of Christ today through you?
Blessings,
Heather
The past couple of weeks I've really had my ears "tuned up" from God. Have you ever had that happen? Those times when God tweaks your listening skills and asks you, my child do you not understand even now that in your faith comes great blessing and reward? I'm in that place it appears these days. Constant reminders of just how blessed I am even through the storms of life... I AM BLESSED.
I've been reminded by countless scriptures of how God favors his people through his grace and provisions. I'm also reminded contrary to some people's understanding (clearing my throat as I say this) that God does not show favortism. So although I am highly favored, I don't claim to be his favorite but loved greatly just the same.
This year hasn't been the best so far; several loved ones have gone home to be with the Lord. We've had a few health and financial scares but through it all God has remained faithful. Although my flesh wanted to grow weak and weary, my God reminded me that he has been with me from the time I was being woven together in my mother's womb. He knows the hairs on my head and my name is forever written on the palm of his hand. He reminds me just how many ways I am blessed and shown favor. It's really easy to get caught up in the pity parties of one and to focus on the negatives in our lives but it's through these trials that we become stronger and become lights to others who perhaps are not walking in a life of faith. How do we encouarge and help another through a situation if we have never experienced it ourselves? How do we reflect God's love and mercy if we've never seen the lack of love and mercy from this world?
Today I got to see the sunshine and spend time outdoors listening to the birds, seeing the clouds roll in and out of view, hear the wind whistling through the trees and smell the fresh air of life that is bursting forth in our trees and flowers. Today I got to see; there are many that didn't. Today I was able to ride my bike and strengthen my heart and body; there were many that will never experience that pleasure. Today I was able to hear the message given to my pastor from our heavenly father, there are many in this world that would give anything just to have five minutes to hear or read about his love and life eternal. Today I am blessed. Today I recognize that my blessings flow from one to another. Today I understand what it means to be blessed and to be a blessing.
How many blessings can you sit down and write out on a piece of paper that you receive daily? How many blessings can you think of in your mind that you simply take for granted? How many ways can you be a blessing to others so they can see the light of Christ today through you?
Blessings,
Heather
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