"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."
The past few months I've had the honor of working with an amazing group of women with like hearts, hearts that truly love God and love one another as sisters in Christ. Some may read this and say, sure they do. I can understand that response. Some of you may have been hurt by people in the church and your view of who the "church" is may be a little jaded or even a painful memory. Unfortunately, even those in our church families can cause pain whether intentionally or unintentionally. The part that we all have to remember is that we are all human and we will let one another down from time to time... even those who are called to build us up. The church is full of people seeking to be better, to understand what it truly means to be a Christ follower and praying for a closer relationship with Christ and each other. We aren't perfect, we never will be here on this earth, but we keep trying and some days we have more success than others. There are also those people who "attend church" that simply go because that's what they've always done. There are all kinds of people in the church, but there is only one kind of people who ARE the church. Those are some of the same people you see during your church services, but these people are different.
You may be a little confused by now with what I just said. Let me explain. There is a significant difference in attending church versus being the church. I believe that anyone, whether you are a believer or not, can tell the difference between these two groups of people. Anyone can walk into a church service, but it takes someone with the heart of Christ to be the church. This heart that I'm talking about is the heart that loves, plain and simple. The word tells us that love is the greatest gift. Matthew 22:36-39 says, “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ Being the church means planting these two commandments, the greatest commandments, in your heart and carrying those out in action.
This weekend I got to see my church family and by that I mean the greater church and not just my church where i attend each week, put these commandments into action. We were able to share the love of Christ with a group of women at the Domestic Violence Center in Greene County. It was an incredible blessing to be part of this display of love. The women who joined together to share the love of Christ truly were representing the church as it was intended. There wasn't an expectation, it wasn't self-serving and it wasn't about feeling good about doing something good. It was about understanding the two great commandments on love. The love of God that this group of women has that consumes their whole heart, soul and mind joined together to love their neighbor, to love their sisters. We were able to share Christ even if we never mentioned his name. Being a Christian isn't about shoving Christ down the throat of another, it's about sharing the very heart that Christ has placed in our bodies. We were able to see a physical transformation immediately with the women that we ministered to... but more importantly we saw some heart changes to. We began seeing a trust again in the church body that was displayed as a group of women from different church families coming to together for a single purpose... to love.
I don't say all of this to say that attending church isn't important. Just the opposite actually. If I didn't attend my church I would have never met the women that worked alongside me this weekend. We would have never been ministered to ourselves to understand what it means to be the church. Sure, I can read the word myself. I can build a relationship with Christ and go out and serve. But we were never commissioned to go out alone and that is where our church family, the place where we congregate each week, becomes so vital and important. We need one another to become the church to the world. We will never be perfect, we will mistakes, but we will also grow through the love that is shared and learn from the same mistakes that cause others to judge us.
I know there is much unrest right now in our world over our beliefs, our faith or religious backgrounds. Believers and non-believers alike continue to judge one another and point fingers at each other simply because we believe differently. That judgement breaks my heart because I've prayed my whole life for God to break my heart for what breaks his. I know without doubt that God's heart is broken over the hate that has consumed so many hearts. But I believe he also rejoices that his church is beginning to wake up and has begun to understand what love is.
There is a song with lyrics that goes "I wanna know what love is, I want you to show me." Is that your heart today? Do you want to know what love is? Have you opened up your heart to receive love so that you can give love? Do you understand what being the church is versus attending? Today that all could change for you simply by praying that simple prayer as I have often done... "Dear Lord, break my heart for what breaks yours... teach me to love as the church. Amen"
Blessings,
Heather
